Summertime: When inconsistency is inevitable.

I’m amazed at writers who are also stay-at-home mom’s. They really impress me. The ones who put out good content multiple times a week, some even on a daily basis. I want to know the secret to their success; how in the world they manage to think clearly, much less document any of those thoughts, while they have their children with them constantly.

It was easier for me when the kids were a little younger and still on a regular napping schedule, and I can see it getting  easier again when they are a little older and in the more private tween/teen stage. But right now, they are all 3 in the my-parents-are-the-coolest-so-I-want-to-be-around-them-24-hours-a-day-stage.

It’s wonderful and frustrating at the same time.

While I am writing regularly throughout the summer, I am finishing nothing. If you could sneak into my drafts folder and peruse it a bit, you’d feel a sense of excitement and anticipation followed by abrupt disappointment, like seeing “To Be Continued…” at the end of your favorite TV show. I can only seem to make it halfway through any of them before I am forced to leave my computer to feed a child, break up a fight, or try and fix a scratched DVD. I return to my spot with the intent to finish my piece, but it’s no use. That first interruption gives way to countless more interruptions until I finally wave my white flag and just shut it down for the day.

So I apologize for my inconsistency in posting recently. Please understand that I am really wanting to get new stuff up at least once a week, as I leave you with this visual:

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That’s the youngest with his mouth covered in painter’s tape and his body strapped to a tree in our front yard. The oldest is holding a homemade staff, as he called it, with a (thankfully) just as equally rudimentary machete attached, swinging by a string. The middle one is wearing soccer goalie gloves since we don’t, and will never, have any boxing gloves in the house.

This was a couple of weeks ago, but this fun game of pretend hostage could really happen on any given day at our house while I’m trying to get something accomplished.

In this instance, we had finished eating dinner and, in the hopes of maximizing my efficiency, I suggested they go out front to play while I cleaned up the kitchen. And though the kids had been busy all week creating swords, axes, catapults, bows with arrows, and  ninja stars out of some old blinds and any kind of tape they could scrounge up in the garage, I didn’t expect to peek out the window by the front door and see this.

So, if you are a beloved reader of this blog and in the next couple of weeks wonder why you haven’t gotten a post delivered to your inbox recently, think back and remember this picture.  Know that I am writing something almost daily and that you will get to read it. At some point.

On the other hand, if you are a neighbor of mine or just a stranger driving down my street and see my kids taped to a tree, please don’t pass judgment. Know that it was not the act of a frustrated mom who just desperately wanted to get her kitchen clean or to write down one complete thought, but simply a boy’s interpretation of his mother’s command: “Go outside and play!”

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6 thoughts on “Summertime: When inconsistency is inevitable.

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  3. This is me! In just the time I sat down to read your post, I was interrupted twice by my nearly 4 year old daughter who is learning to play educational games on the computer. The interruptions are endless and, though I do truly love playing with my girls, one hour of uninterrupted time would be so glorious. I am in the midst of the Do Good Summer Reading Challenge and the goal is very simple: read and comment on one new blog per day. Simple in theory, but in practice, very challenging. Today is Day 26 and I am writing about you for Day 24. I share all this just so you know that you are not alone, and to thank you for writing this so that I know I am not alone either. :)

    • Thank you for your thoughtful comment and for the inspiration. What a fantastic way to support each other! I am going to try and do the same and have already found a few great new blogs thanks to you–yours included!

  4. That is absolutely hilarious! Some of the better stuff I write has come out when I do it in the morning when the kids are still sleeping. Otherwise everything else I do in 10 minutes and hit publish and just hope there is not too many mistakes! My mind is truly never clear with 3 kids!

    • I have thought about getting up early and trying to accomplish something but I can never quite get myself in gear and actually do it. Maybe I’ll give it a shot though, knowing it works for someone else! Thanks for the tip!


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